Ship it somewhere that is staffed. A parent's house, a workplace, a neighbour who is in during the day — anywhere you'll reliably get it.
You can change the shipping address up to about ten days before your event. After that the kit is already staged and a change gets difficult.
If you're stuck, call (732) 555-0199 — we can often hold a delivery at a carrier location for pickup instead.
Two minutes, and you'll know either way.